Celebrating the Lord’s Supper at Home

Thursday of the Lord’s Supper (2020)

We continue our series of reflections on the meaning of the signs and symbols of the celebration of the Lord’s Supper that for many of us occurs on Holy Thursday.

If you have been participating in daily televised and online Masses, I am reasonably sure that these programs will feature the liturgy of Thursday of the Lord’s Supper. You might have to check the time of the live streaming to see if the Mass is moved to the evening. Word On Fire, for example, has posted times on their website. Holy Thursday Mass is scheduled for live streaming at 9:00 p.m. ET. As before, the Masses will be posted on the website for next-day viewing.

If you do not have access to televised or online Mass, be sure to include the Scripture readings in your reflections sometime during the day: Exodus 12:1-8, 11-14; Psalm 116:12-18; 1 Corinthians 11:23-26; John 13:1-15.

Fruit of the Vine, Australia (2012)

Do This in Memory of Me

The context for Jesus’ instruction, “Do this in memory of me” (Luke 22:19; 1 Cor 11:24), is the meal he shared with his disciples the night before he died. Because of the insertion of these words close to the description of Jesus’ breaking and sharing of the bread and wine at the table, through the years we have limited his instruction to this specific action. Did Jesus mean “eat my Body and drink my Blood in remembrance of me”? Yes, of course. Yet, I like to think he meant do this about every part of his life.

Feed the hungry – do this in memory of me. Wash each other’s feet – do this in memory of me. Heal the sick – do this in memory of me. Provide safe drinking water to impoverished regions – do this in memory of me. Do this and this and this. Reflecting on the symbols and actions at the Lord’s Supper, I would like to focus on two: washing our feet and feeding those at our tables.

Washing Our Feet

In these tumultuous days, we hear “wash your hands”, “don’t touch your face”, over and over again. Aren’t these perfect instructions for Holy Thursday? Wash your hands, and face, and feet. Wash the hands, and faces, and feet of those in your care – be they young or old, sick or well. “Do this in memory of me.”

What might this look like in your home? At bath time with the little ones, as you wash their feet, remember the story of Jesus washing the feet of his friends. Sit on the edge of the bathtub and ask your little ones to wash your feet (and hands and face). Let them massage oil into your tired and aching feet. See this as the Lord washing Peter’s (and your) feet.

What about those pedicures we have had to forego? Might we offer pedicures to each other in our homes? “Do this in memory of me.” In the very least, express gratitude for the women and men who earn their living giving pedicures. Do we even know their names after years of frequenting their salons?

Your church may have monthly collections of toiletries and cleaning products for vulnerable populations. These populations are even more vulnerable now that our churches are closed and collections have been put on hold. Why not mail a check to a local agency? Even if their centers are closed, they can reach their clients by mail.

Homemade Bread, Chile (2019)

Feeding Those at Our Tables

Holy Thursday is all about sharing food and drink with friends and family. If you are a baker (and even if baking is a challenge to you!), you might bake a special bread to share with others on Thursday. Set aside a special drink for your meal that day: wine, flavored water, grape juice. “Do this in memory of me.”

Holy Thursday is also a good time to think about food and feeding those who are hungry. It’s about extending our tables beyond our immediate families. I want to recommend a book that is perfect for your Holy Thursday reflections:

The Meal That Reconnects: Eucharistic Eating and the Global Food Crisis by Mary E. McGann (Liturgical Press, 2020).

What is most lost in the crises that engulf the industrial food system today is the recognition that food is a gift, given from the depths of divine love and sourced by the cosmic generosity of the universe; that food is relationship, an invitation to participate in the relationships that mark our identity as members of a global community of life: relationships with the Earth, with each other, with the poor and suffering of the world, and with the divine Source of all being. (p. 82)

I just recently became aware of Chef José Andrés and his World Central Kitchen, even though it has been in existence for more than ten years. You can find information at https://wck.org. Chef Andrés and his teams respond to national and international crises by bringing food and engaging local chefs in the preparation and distribution of food. WCK is responding to the current COVID-19 crisis in cities across the country. Here is an excerpt of Chef Andrés’ letter posted on the WCK website:

With your help, we have shown that there is no place too far or disaster too great for our chefs to be there with a hot plate of food when it’s needed most. I hope you’ll dream with us as we envision a world where there is always a warm meal, an encouraging word, and a helping hand in hard times. Thank you for taking this journey with us. Join me in fulfilling the inspiring words of John Steinbeck: “Wherever there’s a fight so hungry people may eat, we will be there.” We must be there.

Coffee, Guatemala (2011)


Our home liturgies and celebrations can include recorded hymns that might be favorites of those gathered. There are many Communion hymns from which to choose. Again, just google the title of the hymn even if you don’t know the name of the composer. I would like to recommend a hymn about washing each other’s feet: “As I Have Done for You” by Dan Schutte, 2001, based on John 13-16 (Jesus’ instructions at the Last Supper). The refrain is:

I, your Lord and Master, now become your servant.

I, who made the moon and stars will kneel to wash your feet.

This is my commandment: to love as I have loved you.

Kneel to wash each other’s feet as I have done for you.

I would like to close today with the words of verse 6 from this song:

I will give you peace, this will be my blessing.

Though the world churns around you, I leave you my peace.

I have told you all these things that my peace may dwell within you.

Let your faith be unshaken and your hope be ever strong.





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